This beautiful winter wedding began on a cold, crisp January morning, with snow on the ground, soft winter light, quiet excitement in the air, and a family about to begin a brand-new chapter together.

In the months leading up to the wedding, the bride reached out to me with her little one in mind. At the time, he was non-verbal and found busy environments overwhelming. She was looking for something specific, she wanted someone who would ensure her little one was supported, understood and for him to enjoy the day just as much as everyone, in a way that felt right for him.

That reassurance is so important. Because when parents feel confident about their child’s care, it allows them to truly relax and be present on their wedding day.

🤍 A Calm Start to the Morning

I arrived just before the ceremony, ready to be a familiar and steady presence for their little one. From the moment I walked in, I was met with the warmest sense of relief, that unspoken “thank goodness you’re here” that says everything.

The morning had already been busy, lots of people, noise and unfamiliar clothes so we gently slowed things down.

I picked up my toy suitcase, gathered him into my arms, and we settled into a calm, quiet space where he could simply be himself. A place to breathe, to regulate. A place to play, relax and feel safe 💜

🌿 Creating an Anchor Point

That space became his anchor point for the day.

Close enough to see what was happening and feel included. Far enough away to feel calm and comfortable.

From there, we moved gently through the day together, playing quietly, then heading over to see family and familiar faces, before returning again whenever he wanted. There was no pressure, no rushing, just a natural rhythm that followed his lead completely.

This balance allowed him to experience the wedding day in a way that felt secure and amazing for him, not overwhelming.

❄️ Photos, Snow and Gentle Moments

When it was time for photos, we wrapped up warm and headed outside together. Little footsteps crunching in the snow, bubbles floating through the winter air, and plenty of time taken to move at his pace before heading back inside to warm up again.

Throughout the day, I stayed close during speeches and dinner too, keeping familiar routines, offering reassurance, and supporting transitions quietly and calmly. This meant he could remain part of the celebrations while still feeling safe and settled.

💜 A Day That Worked for Everyone

The result was a beautifully settled, happy little VIP and parents who could truly relax and soak up every moment of their wedding day, knowing their child was content and cared for.

The bride messaged me the following morning, and one line she shared has will always stay with me:

“…as soon as he was with you he was completely at peace and had the best time.”

🤍 Why This Matters

Being part of this special day really did mean the world to me.

To know you’ve helped create calm, confidence and joy for a little one and given parents the freedom to fully enjoy such an important day is a feeling that’s hard to put into words.

This is what wedding childcare is truly about. Not stepping children away from the day, but supporting them within it, with care, understanding and heart.

And it’s the reason I absolutely love what I do 💜

Photographs captured beautifully by the hugely talented Treasure Box Photography